So you have finally decided that the both of you want to get married and settle down which is fantastic. But now comes the challenging part leading up to your wedding celebrations and the ceremony. There is so much planning to do and a more than a few toes including your very own will be stepped on, no doubt. There will also be more likely than not, tears, tantrums, fights and sometimes just all out chaos and war. But these are normal human reactions to high stress and highly emotional situations and you should be able to steer your course through them with just a little bit of cool and calm composure and of course and common sense.
Not Planning In Advance
You should never wait for the last minute to start planning things. Always be ready to go and have your planning stared well ahead of the big day. Especially when it comes to things like booking your hotel or if it is a destination wedding booking your Hawaii wedding photographer for example and the other details like the cakes, should never be left hanging until the last moment. In fact these are the first few things that you will need to cross right off your check list so that there is enough time for them to make arrangements and also for you to know that you will not be running into any disappointments. So please do not wait until one month before the big day to make your bookings.
Doing It All by Yourself
Unless you really are redefining the term one man or one woman army you should never try to do it all by yourself. A marriage celebration has so many little details running in and out of it and for one single person to handle this by themselves is something that is almost next to impossible. Even the veteran planners of weddings have a massive entourage running around like ninjas with walkie talkies. Do you have an entourage who can do the same for you? No? You are going to plan this all alone? Yes, well there will be breakdowns and a lot of tears and anxiety, avoid all that please,
Wanting Things to Be Near Perfect
Nothing is perfect and the sooner you understand this the better it will be for everybody. Especially when it comes to something like a wedding enjoying the moment is as much important as making sure that everything is perfect. Therefore make sure that when you plan things out and when you expect things to come around, you do so realistically. It only takes a moment for you to push somebody too much and turn your happily ever after into a happily never after as well. So good luck and stay calm always, or at least as much as possible.